No, but they can hold it back and be polite after the fact. Some people feel like they have to, like it's how it makes sense to handle a partner. [ But she's right that not ... exactly a lot or anything. The bearded man hums a bit and he brushes a little on her as well. He exhales, and he wanted to...

She wanted to...

He shouldn't assume either way, but he responds, ]

Whoever wants to, yeah - you can.